tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post3182060603590704555..comments2023-05-11T05:20:10.564-04:00Comments on Calamity Chang "The Asian Sexsation" : The ScarUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-18876579351339542262015-08-13T21:35:51.961-04:002015-08-13T21:35:51.961-04:00That scar gave you the opportunity to be with us l...That scar gave you the opportunity to be with us longer. I think all of you is beautiful, but there are events and things in life we have no control over and it is better that we accept that and move on. Keep on being the lady we know and love.kitmouserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02754955973647854450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-64437634398206137312012-02-08T22:06:47.985-05:002012-02-08T22:06:47.985-05:00Yes the belly button is still there! The doctors w...Yes the belly button is still there! The doctors went around it when they made the incision.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14131751008595637977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-56736747312734576572012-02-08T20:15:06.576-05:002012-02-08T20:15:06.576-05:00I really like your show and the way you perform. I...I really like your show and the way you perform. I think the scar looks cool. But I have a question... do you have a bellybutton?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-13426454803290186762012-01-24T23:24:00.279-05:002012-01-24T23:24:00.279-05:00Thank You so much for putting things into perspect...Thank You so much for putting things into perspective for me. I am going to try to embrace my scar for what it is: a daily reminder of how i overcame many things in my past and am alive today , in order to help other ppl less fortunate. I know it will still take a while to get used to showing it off and dealing with the stares, but I will look to it as a challenge :) . AND seriously, I thank you so much for replying and helping me out! I dnt know anyone who has a scar like mine, so it is completely amazing that I was able to talk to someone about it, who understands. I thank you with my entire heart <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-81233274842975939872012-01-24T16:12:50.022-05:002012-01-24T16:12:50.022-05:00Hi Anonymous, Thank you for taking the time to sha...Hi Anonymous, Thank you for taking the time to share your story with my readers. It sounds like a really scary surgery you had when you were born, but you have your life and relatively speaking, there could be worse complications! Now that I said my "Mother Chang" piece, I will say that I am not always confident and want to show off my scar. But whenever I start to feel self conscious, I stop myself and think about how lucky I am that I didn't die that day during surgery or from post-surgery complications. I was in ICU for a full week, barely cognizant.<br /><br />I also accept my scar as a part of me. Like my eye color. Or my height. The size of my hands or feet. These are physical attributes that one can't change so I learned to stop thinking about my scar as something that I can get rid off or alter. I DO think however you can put vitamin E oil on the scar or other scar softening cream, if that helps you feel less self conscious about it. For me, it wasn't the scar that at times make me self-conscious but more how dark the skin is around there.<br /><br />Lastly, there are many unfortunate lives in the world with worse problems than our dermal scars...so I really do think my "flaw" is superficial and I encourage you not to loose anymore sleep over it. Plus, you know what, guys think girls with scars are totally sexy!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14131751008595637977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-45336931894110963562012-01-24T16:10:51.636-05:002012-01-24T16:10:51.636-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14131751008595637977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-80495521302522009162012-01-24T00:53:32.598-05:002012-01-24T00:53:32.598-05:00Hi! You are so unbelievably brave to show off your...Hi! You are so unbelievably brave to show off your scar and I think its so beautiful that you accept it and flaunt it! I am 21, have a scar very similar to yours, except it is horizontally in the middle of my stomach, covering over half my body. I've had it since the 2nd day i was born from a surgery, then i had 3 more to follow, so the scar tissue ddnt heal well. I have never been comfortable showing it off and have always kept it hidden, even from my family. But i am tired of being self-conscious,tired of wearing ugly one-pieces,mortified by letting a guy see my scar, and im tired of being afraid all the time. I want to be comfortable with it and show it off, but I am still scared and dont know how not to be. How did you become so confident?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-76312627621290854932012-01-09T17:29:59.887-05:002012-01-09T17:29:59.887-05:00Thank you Anonymous!Thank you Anonymous!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14131751008595637977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-76711160654520691332012-01-09T16:56:07.994-05:002012-01-09T16:56:07.994-05:00I really love the loooking of your body and the sc...I really love the loooking of your body and the scar is a part of it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-88546309889825074322011-04-17T18:52:43.903-04:002011-04-17T18:52:43.903-04:00Thank you for sharing your story about the scar. I...Thank you for sharing your story about the scar. It is one of the many things that make you a wonderfully unique person, and although it was a very difficult experience, I'm sure that it gives you a perspective that others may not have. <br />I wish that we could all embrace our unique characteristics they way you do and tell people to F-off when they don't respect our differences. (Who the hell do they think they are to judge you for having a scar??) I can only hope that the more we publicly flaunt our body parts with grace and confidence (especially the parts that do NOT conform to the socially-accepted ideal), the more people will broaden their narrow definitions of beauty.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11551433167407825178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-17089877395246097952011-04-09T00:07:33.479-04:002011-04-09T00:07:33.479-04:00Part of what I like about burlesque is that it'...Part of what I like about burlesque is that it's about real bodies and real people.puccagrrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11749223992449869692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-76900968588505208162011-04-07T21:35:56.632-04:002011-04-07T21:35:56.632-04:00I have a pretty scar on my right wrist from where ...I have a pretty scar on my right wrist from where I was bit by a "friendly dog who would never bite anyone, go ahead and pet him."vampyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14660319794133128873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-3362201633937755032011-04-06T08:02:50.962-04:002011-04-06T08:02:50.962-04:00I must admit I have wondered about your scar. You ...I must admit I have wondered about your scar. You are damn lucky to be alive. So it's a battle scar, an award for your will to survive. Now, as it turns out I may have a similar scar over my heart, in the not too distant future. I wonder if people will be as forgiving of me. That is if I can even continue to perform.Dalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18388356249912904307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-17624315223505425892011-04-05T23:49:28.532-04:002011-04-05T23:49:28.532-04:00I'm not sure whether I even noticed the scar t...I'm not sure whether I even noticed the scar the first time I saw you perform. But eventually I did, and I thought, well that's unusual. <br /><br />Now I barely notice it. (Teehee, I said barely.)capricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06724714559985306062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6841257941461491047.post-6587912046930423012011-04-05T20:16:38.031-04:002011-04-05T20:16:38.031-04:00I fucking love you!I fucking love you!MommaSparkleBothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00713215085003977076noreply@blogger.com